I think…no, I believe that happiness is a state of mind. Having said that, I do take into account certain diagnosed conditions of the human psyche that can respond to medically prescribed forms of treatment. I’m referencing the state where we allow life events/intrusions & other folks misery to influence our own outlook and viewpoints…trample upon our emotions…

When we allow negative & outside influences to affect us, we’re basically giving up our power to others in order to make them feel better about themselves…The adage “misery loves company” contains more than an ounce of truth..

Sometimes people have hidden agendas. If you’re kind, they will, in essence, use that kindness for weakness, which can cause one to feel a swift pang. If that occurs in your life, by all means open yourself to that period of hurt feelings like you’ve been used, but, don’t allow some other person’s deception cause you to lose your joy…your happiness,your willingness to pay-it-forward.

I’m happy being “me’. I’m happy to just “”be”.  I’m happy! Women of authenticity, are you happy? It’s your choice. If you allow someone’s misery to intrude upon your world of knowing peace,serenity, and wholeness, you gotta take back your power AND repeat this mantra…

“Your opinion of me, is none of my business!” Guy Finley…

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